French Intimacy Tips for Beginners: Embracing Your Desires with Confidence

Why Start with a French Twist?

French culture views intimacy as natural and joyful due to our cultural emphasis on the pleasure principle, where enjoying life and its pleasure—including physical touch and emotional connection— is a central life philosophy.

Tip 1: Normalize Conversations About Desires

Discuss starting small, like sharing fantasies over wine, share something you might have seen, heard that cought your attention—the point being to open a discussion and engage/normalize it. It makes your partner feel more at ease and understand it’s a subject like any other subject.

Tip 2: Incorporate Playful Flirting

In my Blog post "Lessons from French Romance" link above – I mentionned adding subtle glances and banter to build tension. Every single little touches helps build tension, it can be a simple touch on the shoulder while laughing, a playful light kiss on the hand, again you are trying to build tension, to allow the brain to get excited.

Tip 3: Focus on Sensory Experiences

Included if/whenever possible anything that will activate your other senses, like scented candles, play with hot/cold ( it can be an ice cube in your mouth, plan a more touch-focused date. You will surprise yourself and your partner and might find sensations you didn’t know existed.

Overcoming Common Beginner Challenges

You might be telling yourself “yeh yeh its easier said than done” trust me it actually is… nervousness is a normal feeling and it’s directly correlated with the adrenaline response. This same adrenaline is what will lead to an augmented pleasure. Again start small, try to implement these tips in your life, and if you still need help… remember that’s why I am here for you, it can be done in a one on one session or even in a group workshop. Join me with a few of your friends/couple and let me guide you.