What a French Twist Means for Love and Intimacy

An everyday scene in Paris… all you need is chemistry

What if love and intimacy weren’t things to whisper about, but to celebrate out loud? In France, that’s exactly how we see it. Culture shapes so much of who we are—our beliefs, our values, and yes, even how we love. Growing up in France, I learned that love and intimacy aren’t taboo; they’re part of life’s most beautiful conversations. Today, I’m excited to share how this “French twist” shaped me—and how it might just inspire you too.

The French Way: Fewer Taboos, More Freedom

France is famous for romance, but it’s not just about candlelit dinners or strolls along the Seine. It’s about a mindset. We have a saying, “L’amour fait tourner le monde”—“Love makes the world go round.” It’s woven into our art, our literature, and even our everyday conversations.

In French culture, we embrace joie de vivre—the joy of living. That includes the pleasures of love and intimacy without guilt or shame. From a young age, we’re taught that these are natural parts of life. I remember family dinners where relationships were discussed openly, not hushed up. It’s a freedom that feels like second nature here.

How It Shaped Me: A Personal Story

Let me take you back to when I was 12, getting ready to go on vacation without my mum for the first time in my life… a trip organized by our town council for under privileged kids… 12 will you tell me? how can you even remember that? well just how you remembered the first time you had sex, I remember the first time my mum put condoms in my luggage and also how she mentioned to use them if I needed to do anything. She didn’t know that at that age I still hadn’t masturbated yet, but she, without an ounce of shame told me about condoms and how they should be used. Meanwhile, kids/adults abroad can’t even say the word “sex” without blushing or feeling they might go to jail for saying this word. That moment stuck with me. It wasn’t awkward; it was liberating and felt “normal”.

Growing up, I saw love and intimacy as something to explore, not fear. French flirting, with its playful banter and effortless charm, felt like a dance rather than a hurdle. Now, let me make myself clear, I was never the mister charming guy, I was pretty shy in this regards, but I had other jokers up my sleeves such as my humor, something I would understand later is worth more than pure beauty. It’s a perspective that’s made me passionate about helping others embrace their own desires without hesitation.

Conclusion: A Little French Twist for Everyone

That’s the French twist—no fear, just freedom in love and intimacy. It’s not about being French; it’s about seeing these parts of life as natural and beautiful. So, I’ll leave you with this: How has your culture shaped your views on love? What small step could you take to embrace your desires more openly? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below—let’s keep the conversation going!